Tuesday, April 2, 2013

When people choose not to listen

Hello all. I apologize for not writing for a while. There really hasn't been anything to set me off in order to write about. But now I do. So many things in the past month. So here goes for my first blog. There will be a few more shorter ones to follow.

    Okay so ever had a friend or 2 friends come to you for advice and you give them excellent advice and they get mad at you?? Yeah this happened to me. I had 2 friends come to me for advice and I gave excellent advice and they were both very mad at me at first. Well after about 6 months, what I said would happen, happened. And BOTH parties came to me and said I had been right.

  Well I then tried to get both of them to talk about it with me, but only one of them would talk and disclose any information. And this person continually told me how I had been so right and they were sorry for getting so mad at me. Well just a few days ago I found out that they are back together. And one of them was telling people at work that they needed sex because it had been too long.

  I would just like to say that this is not the first time I had given these two advice about each other. And even though I was and am right, they choose not to listen because "the sex is too good". I am soo over this society and the fact that it produces sluts and jerks. I could say that nicer, but I can't help it. If people would just sit and have conversations and talk and not worry about the sexual part, our society would probably be a better place. Girls are taught that if they give a boy sex then he will want to be with them and that is not the case. But here is what happens... he gets what he wants for the time and then when you are gone he will find it elsewhere. And girls always get way too emotionally involved when sex is a factor in the relationship. It has alot to do with our sex organs being linked to our brain and we become connected with that person and we do things that we ordinarily wouldn't do. We act stupid and desperate. I just wanna look at these girls and tell them to have some self-respect and some self-control. Also mend their relationships with family, because almost always those girls who are sleeping around have some sort of mom/dad issue. It's hard to be in a relationship when both people are broken and are not okay being alone. There is such pressure on the women of today to always be in a relationship and if she is not, then something MUST be wrong with her. FALSE: Ladies, FIX YOURSELF AND LEARN SELF-RESPECT BEFORE GETTING INVOLVED!!! I am done with women thinking that they need a man to help "define" them. Girl, pick yourself up, drop him and move on!!! If the people who TRULY love you and are willing to risk the friendship by telling you how they feel, if you are losing friends, and your family doesn't approve...Drop him!!

And to the guy, if she is not ready be in a grown-up relationship and is immature, let her go. You need time to just be single and work on yourself and hang out with friends and do guy stuff. Just know that you need to be able to be happy being single before you can been completely happy in a relationship.

I am tired of giving good advice and no one listens...

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